New York,\u00a0NY , Oct. 19, 2026 (GLOBE NEWSWIRE) — New Christian parenting book offers biblical and practical help for blended families navigating step-parenting, co-parenting, grief, forgiveness, and family unity.<\/p>\n
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\u25cf\u00a0 In\u00e9s Franklin\u2019s personal journey as part of a blended family<\/i><\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0 The unique challenges and hidden grief many blended families experience<\/i><\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0 Practical guidance for parents, step-parents and couples<\/i><\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0 Christ-centered approaches to forgiveness, co-parenting and family relationships<\/i><\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0 A message of hope for families navigating complicated stories<\/i><\/p>\n
\u00a0 In\u00e9s Franklin<\/b><\/a> knows that blending a family can begin with hope, yet still uncover issues no one saw coming.<\/b><\/p>\n More than 20 years ago, Franklin and her husband, Jim, brought two family histories into one home. Together, they began building what their children would eventually call the \u201cFranklin Smoothie,\u201d a blended family that now includes five children and twelve grandchildren.\u00a0<\/p>\n The name is playful. The process of becoming a family was not always easy.<\/p>\n Like many remarried couples, the Franklins discovered that a wedding could establish a new household in a day, but trust, belonging, and unity would take much longer to build. Each family member arrived with personal history, established relationships, expectations, and wounds. New love did not automatically erase old grief.<\/p>\n That journey became the foundation for Franklin\u2019s book, Blended & Blessed: Building Family Unity & Healing Through the Beatitudes.<\/a><\/p>\n \u201cI did not write this book because our family followed a perfect formula,\u201d Franklin said. \u201cI wrote it because God met us in the complicated places. He taught us that healing is often slow, that forgiveness is a repeated choice, and that unity is built through grace-filled faithfulness over time.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n THE HIDDEN PAIN MANY BLENDED FAMILIES CARRY<\/b><\/p>\n A blended family often begins after divorce, death, abandonment, or another significant loss. Even when a remarriage is joyful, family members may still be grieving what came before.<\/p>\n Children may wonder whether accepting a step-parent betrays their biological parent. Step-parents may offer love without knowing whether it will be returned. Biological parents may feel torn between supporting a new spouse and protecting their children. Couples may struggle to establish shared authority while navigating former spouses, custody schedules, and competing household expectations.<\/p>\n Many Christian parents also carry shame. They may fear that their family story is too broken, too complicated, or too far from what they believe a Christian home should look like.<\/p>\n Franklin wants those families to know that Jesus does not wait for them to repair their lives before drawing near.<\/p>\n \u201cThe gospel is not reserved for families with uncomplicated stories,\u201d Franklin said. \u201cJesus meets us in the grief, confusion, conflict, and disappointment. He does not shame us for bringing Him broken pieces. Redemption is what He does.\u201d<\/p>\n WHY HEALING CANNOT BE RUSHED<\/b><\/p>\n Franklin says one of the most damaging expectations placed on blended families is the belief that everyone should quickly feel close.<\/p>\n Parents may be eager to create new traditions and move forward. Children may still be mourning a previous family structure. A step-parent may be ready to assume a parental role before a child is ready to trust them.<\/p>\n When those timelines collide, disappointment can turn into pressure, conflict or withdrawal.<\/p>\n Blended & Blessed<\/a> encourages parents and step-parents to replace forced closeness with patient, consistent love. It also helps families make room for grief rather than treating difficult emotions as resistance to the new marriage.<\/p>\n \u201cHealing in a blended family is rarely one dramatic breakthrough,\u201d Franklin said. \u201cIt is often a child slowly beginning to feel safe. It is a step-parent choosing patience when love is not returned. It is a couple having the hard conversation before resentment becomes a crisis. It is a family staying at the table and trusting God with what is still unfinished.\u201d<\/p>\n A BIBLICAL FRAMEWORK FOR BLENDED FAMILY UNITY<\/b><\/p>\n Blended & Blessed<\/a> uses the Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3-12) to guide families through the inner work required for lasting unity.<\/p>\n The book connects biblical principles with the daily realities of:<\/p>\n \u2022 Step-parenting and earning trust<\/p>\n \u2022 Co-parenting with wisdom and healthy boundaries<\/p>\n \u2022 Processing grief after divorce or loss<\/p>\n \u2022 Releasing bitterness and practicing forgiveness<\/p>\n \u2022 Protecting and strengthening the new marriage<\/p>\n \u2022 Helping children navigate loyalty conflicts<\/p>\n \u2022 Creating Christ-centered family rhythms<\/p>\n \u2022 Building belonging without demanding instant closeness<\/p>\n Franklin encourages families to establish shared spiritual rhythms, including prayer, Scripture, worship, church involvement, and service. These practices cannot manufacture instant unity, but they can steadily orient the household toward Christ.<\/p>\n \u201cYour children and stepchildren are watching how you live when conflict is real and patience is thin,\u201d Franklin said. \u201cKeeping Christ at the center of a blended family is not about appearing spiritual. It is about allowing your own relationship with God to shape how you listen, apologize, forgive, and love.\u201d<\/p>\n PRACTICAL HELP FOR CHRISTIAN PARENTS AND STEP-PARENTS<\/b><\/p>\n Franklin wrote Blended & Blessed<\/a> for real families living through real challenges.<\/p>\n The book does not present a sentimental picture of blended family life. It offers honest personal stories, biblical insight, research-informed guidance, and practical tools for families who want to move toward greater health and unity.<\/p>\n Readers are encouraged to:<\/p>\n \u2022 Give children permission to express grief and difficult emotions<\/p>\n \u2022 Let trust develop at a healthy pace<\/p>\n \u2022 Seek help from trained Christian counselors when needed<\/p>\n \u2022 Address bitterness toward former spouses<\/p>\n \u2022 Prioritize the marriage as an anchor for the household<\/p>\n \u2022 Build consistent family and spiritual rhythms<\/p>\n \u2022 Create opportunities to serve and grow together<\/p>\n \u2022 Choose grace over the pressure to appear perfect<\/p>\n A free companion guide includes self-reflection exercises, healing discussions, prayer prompts, and Beatitudes reflections. The guide can be used by individuals, couples, counselors, small groups, and churches seeking a structured Christian resource for blended family ministry.<\/p>\n A MESSAGE OF HOPE FOR COMPLICATED FAMILIES<\/b><\/p>\n Franklin believes blended families can become some of the clearest demonstrations of God\u2019s ability to redeem what has been wounded.<\/p>\n The goal is not to recreate the family that existed before or pretend the past never happened. The goal is to allow God to form something new.<\/p>\n \u201cNew family bonds are not lesser bonds,\u201d Franklin said. \u201cThrough patience, humility, and the grace of God, they can become deep, enduring, and beautiful. Your family\u2019s story may not look the way you once imagined, but that does not mean God is finished writing it.\u201d<\/p>\n Blended & Blessed: Building Family Unity & Healing Through the Beatitudes<\/a> is available now for blended families, step-parents, Christian couples, pastors, counselors, and ministry leaders.<\/p>\n To order the book, read a sample chapter, visit https:\/\/trochia.org\/books\/blended-blessed-book\/<\/a>.<\/p>\n ABOUT IN\u00c9S FRANKLIN<\/b><\/p>\n In\u00e9s Franklin is the founder and president of Trochia Ministries<\/a>, a Christian discipleship ministry. She is the host of The Journey We Share podcast<\/a>, the author of Uncharted: Navigating Your Unique Journey of Faith<\/a> and a teaching pastor at Mariners Church in Southern California. Franklin earned a Master of Divinity from Fuller Theological Seminary and is pursuing a Doctor of Ministry at Talbot School of Theology. 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